

If you have a sleep disorder that doesn’t let up, such as insomnia or chronic nightmares, talk to a sleep specialist. A restful routine that involves a warm bath, listening to music, or deep breathing can be especially helpful if you have insomnia, Edlund says. Prime your body for bed by doing the doing the same things every night. “Keep a boring book on your bed table,” Obolsky says.Īlso, create a restful routine. If you can’t sleep, get up and do something boring.

“We think, ‘Oh my gosh, I have to have enough sleep to make everything work.’ They’re worried about sleep, so they can’t sleep.” Stalked by Chronic NightmaresĬhronic nightmares are another troublesome sleep disorder that can cause fear, says Shelby Harris, PsyD, CBSM, director of the Behavioral Sleep Medicine Program at the Montefiore Medical Center’s Sleep-Wake Disorders Center in New York City. “We’ve turned sleep into a job,” he says. When people don’t get the sleep they need, they become concerned.īut worrying about it only worsens the insomnia, Edlund says. Insomnia, which affects as many as 40% of Americans at one time or another, is the most common cause of this fear. "Sleep dread is extremely common," says Matthew Edlund, MD, director of the Center for Circadian Medicine in Sarasota, Fla., and author of The Power of Rest. Often, dreading sleep is the result of a sleep disorder. “They get anxious because they think they’re not sleeping enough,” Obolsky says. Some older adults for instance, get worried because the amount of sleep they get diminishes. Becoming anxious about sleep is actually a form of performance anxiety, says Alexander Obolsky, MD, a psychiatrist who specializes in trauma and stress, and assistant professor of clinical psychiatry at Northwestern University Medical School in Chicago. Going to sleep might seem like a natural act, but for some people, sleep is a source of dread. “I have nights where I sit and stew without any sleep at all.” Some nights, she’s afraid to go to bed. “It’s an ongoing cycle of not getting the rest that I need, and it causes such anxiety for me,” says Coulter, 38, who lives in New York City. and will wake her up - a thought that only makes her more anxious. To make matters worse, she knows a garbage truck is coming by at 3 a.m. Coulter begins to fret about her to-do list the next day and all her responsibilities as a public relations executive.

Every night, for the last 10 years, Traci Coulter has struggled to sleep.
